By Kathleen Schubert (Actually autistic, author of U Don’t Seem Autistic)
Are you in a relationship with someone who is autistic? Communication is key, but sometimes it can be tricky to get your point across. But when communication is carried out with kindness and understanding, barriers can be overcome. Here are some tips for effective communication with an autistic partner:
Be clear and concise: Autistic people often prefer straightforward communication. Be sure to express yourself in a clear and concise manner. Avoid using sarcasm, idioms or figurative language as these can be confusing.
Use visual aids: If you're trying to explain something complex, using visual aids like diagrams or flowcharts can be helpful. This can help your partner better understand your perspective and avoid misunderstandings.
Give them time to process: Autistic people may need more time to process information. When discussing important topics, give your partner the time they need to fully understand what you're saying before responding.
Avoid sensory overload: Some autistic people may become overwhelmed by too much sensory input. This could be loud noises, bright lights, or strong smells. When communicating with your partner, try to create a calm and peaceful environment that is conducive to good communication.
Ask questions: Sometimes, autistic people may not fully understand what you're saying or may have trouble expressing themselves. To avoid misunderstandings, ask questions to clarify what they're trying to say.
Effective communication is crucial in any relationship, and with these tips, you'll be well on your way to building a strong and healthy connection with your autistic partner. Remember, open and honest communication is key, and with patience and understanding, you can overcome any communication barriers that may arise.
References
National Autistic Society. (2022). Communication. Retrieved from https://www.autism.org.uk/advice-and-guidance/topics/communication
The Art of Autism. (2019). 10 Tips for Communicating with Autistic People. Retrieved from https://the-art-of-autism.com/10-tips-for-communicating-with-autistic-people/
Autism Research Institute. (n.d.). Communication. Retrieved from https://www.autism.org/companion/communication/
Autism Society. (2022). Communication. Retrieved from https://www.autism-society.org/living-with-autism/how-we-can-help/communication/
The Conversation. (2021). Communication tips for engaging with autistic people. Retrieved from https://theconversation.com/communication-tips-for-engaging-with-autistic-people-160056
The Mighty. (2018). How to Communicate Effectively With Someone on the Autism Spectrum. Retrieved from https://themighty.com/2018/05/autism-communication-tips/
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